Feeling Stuck? This Japanese Tool Can Help You Discover Your True Purpose (And Let Go For Good)

Hello to my beautiful girlies 💖

Okay, let’s have a real moment…

Have you ever found yourself wondering what your true purpose is?

Like, deep down—why you’re really here?

I know I did for the longest time. I remember feeling stuck, constantly seeking something outside myself to give me meaning. Whether it was a relationship, a job, or a certain “ideal” life… it always felt like I was chasing, attaching, and hoping it would finally make me feel whole.

But everything changed when I discovered a powerful ancient Japanese method that completely shifted how I saw my life’s direction.

It’s called the Ikigai chart, based on the concept of Ikigai—a beautiful Japanese term that roughly translates to “a reason for being.”

And today, I’m giving it to you completely free. 🫶

Why Ikigai Can Help You Detach and Move Forward

Here’s the thing most people don’t tell you about attachment:

We often “cling” to people, ideas, or situations not because they’re right for us—but because we’re missing something deeper within ourselves.

We’re trying to fill a void.

And that void is often a lack of clarity around our purpose.

When you don’t know what you’re truly meant for, it’s easy to pour your energy into someone else’s story instead of writing your own.

That’s why doing the Ikigai exercise is so powerful. It helps you reconnect with what you love, what you’re good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. It's where passion, mission, vocation, and profession all meet.

And the best part?
It only takes about 10 minutes to fill out.

What To Do After You Complete It

Once you’ve filled out your chart and pinpointed your Ikigai, don’t stop there.

Start setting small, inspired goals that move you in the direction of your purpose. This is where real magic happens—because you’ll notice something:
The more aligned you feel, the less you obsess over people or things that once consumed your thoughts.

Fulfillment comes from within. And when you’re living on purpose, the need to chase or attach starts to fade.

And I can’t wait to see what you uncover ✨

With love,

Alicia Tghlian
Founder, Growth for Girlies